people need to understand that some people just don’t like talking it has nothing to do with u so don’t take it personally like some people just aren’t talkers and they’ll probably never text u first or initiate a conversation and it’s not because they don’t like u it’s just that they don’t think to say anything bc they’re comfortable with not saying anything
If you mean, “On rare occasion I might contact someone first; I generally prefer to not initiate but on occasion (e.g. I’m concerned because I think something’s going on in their life) I can.”? Then that’s cool.
If you mean, “Relationships will crumble into dust if people stop pinging me first because I will never ever bother to initiate with them.”? Fuck you.